PRide Month 2019

HOST A PRIDE PICNIC ​

Those who identify on the LGBTQ+ spectrum sometimes experience strained family dynamics and find belonging and support among what is commonly referred to as their "chosen family". Consider hosting a meal in a safe space, and ask your friends in the LGBTQ+ community to join you in a celebration of friendship to honor their bravery and authenticity. If you are estranged from a family member who identifies as LGBTQ+, this would be a great time to reach out and rebuild burnt bridges. It never hurts to ask what would make your guests feel honored, safe, and respected. Instead of worrying about what could go wrong, simply start by communicating your intention is to be a better ally to the community and then prove it with your example.

DONATE FOOD TO A LOCAL RESOURCE CENTER

Local resource centers that advocate for the LGBTQ+ community usually thrive on the donations and generosity of their community. Do a little research and don't be afraid to call and ask what they are in need of. Often non-perishables, pre-made or pre-packaged items, or snack food is a welcome donation at resource centers. These locations are often the first places struggling youth or skeptical adults go to get more information, and something as simple as fresh fruit on the counter or freshly baked cookies can help add to the warmth and welcoming environment already existing there. Instead of donating leftover cans, try to be intentional about what you want to bring. Your donations can help to nourish bodies and souls, and promote health during difficult transitions.

TEACH A CLASS AT A LOCAL RESOURCE CENTER

Most resource centers have an activity coordinator. If you have any skills relating to health or food, consider donating your time or resources to their programs. Ask what their needs are and get creative. If you identify on the LGBTQ+ spectrum, show how you have thrived and used your skills in the food industry while still being an advocate or ally. Something as simple as teaching a cooking class can help to inspire the community and empower them with the skills they need to succeed in their individual life. 

PROVIDE FOOD FOR PRIDE PARADERS

Most cities host some type of PRIDE parade (if yours doesn't currently, please consider looking into starting one and becoming a community advocate and ally). This is a great opportunity for the community to come together and see that there is support and unity. I love seeing the different spin each city puts  on their PRIDE parade each year because it's a magical infusion of individuality and community. It's a unique celebration of love and equality for a community that faces daily discrimination. Contact the parade organizers and ask what their policies and procedures would allow you to donate. Consider providing snacks or water to the parade goers or seeing how your business or food truck could participate, such as allowing for PRIDE parade flyers or information to be available/advertised at your place of business. 

TALK TO YOUR FAMILY AND FRIENDS OVER DINNER

People, and kids especially, learn by example. Teach those around you to not only be tolerant, but to be kind when they have opportunities to interact with the LGBTQ+ community. Though it might not be typical dinner conversation, having discussions about gender, identity, and why it is important to treat people that are different than us with kindness can inspire actions outside the home. 

If you have recently come out, sharing a meal with friends or family where they can openly ask you questions may help to foster a more aware support system and provide a good foundation for further progress. 

The important idea to communicate in these conversations is that we have the capacity to be kind to people who are, act, or who believe differently than we do.

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BE AN ALLY & BE AWARE

There are so many ways to do this, but I am only going to suggest a few: 

• be informed about LGBTQ+ issues in your community, especially as they relate to or impact human rights, health, and food security 

• support local LGBTQ+ run/ally businesses with your purchases or donations

• show that your business is an ally by communicating that your business is a safe space for the LGBTQ+ community (i.e. visible flag or logo, include inclusive language in your policies/procedures, train employees to respect preferred pronouns, have a PRIDE month promotion or limited edition item)

PRIDE FLAGS 

The rainbow flag is pretty much universal for LGBTQ+ PRIDE these days, and as such can be a simple way to communicate your support for the community in a small but important way. Consider including a PRIDE flag as a centerpiece or more prominent decoration or motif as part of your business or company during PRIDE month. 

Consider putting a flag in a visible location by your hours of operation or an "open" sign so that those interested in visiting your business will easily see it.